I usually dont do this.....

Lately I have been reading a lot of different blogs and there were two that really caught my eye and have been good reading. This one and this one. The Southern Lovin blog is written by a young lady named Peach aka Tiffany. I found her blog via Crunk and Disorderly(I love that blog!) and on the particular day I was reading I caught myself missing Ron Mexico a little bit. Not one to give the devil any glory(I was not going back to my previously depressed state), I tried to focus my attention on something else. The first thing I saw on her page was The Detroit Chronicles. The name alone intrigued me. I began reading and I hung on to every word wondering if she would ever get away and what ever happened with the colorful cast of characters that floated in and out of the story. I had to remind myself I was reading a part of someones real life. I could identify with her because Ron Mexico was the king of all things verbally abusive. If he sensed for one second I was getting "ahead of myself" he would have the right words to cut me down. Reading her story reminded me there was nothing good about him and my life is SOOOOO much better now than it was when I was with him. I say all of this because, the author of that blog needs help finding her son's father. Anyone who knows me, knows I am a fierce advocate for all the Baby Mama's out there. I don't think it's fair that men get to shirk their responsibilities and we get stuck trying to parent a child we created with someone else. Not fair. She created a blog with his info so she can get in contact with him. Spread it 'round people.
All has been quiet on the western front. The place where I am having my reception is being rude as hell. I see the bridezilla hat needs to donned. I will be calling her back next week when I am off. This weekend Rev and I are going to spend a romatical(lol) weekend in Williamsburg. I can't say all we are going to do here because it's supposed to be a surprise for his birthday. I will be bringing the camera and I will have some pictures! I have so much to do tonight. I need to wash clothes. I am so lazy in that department. I think the problem is I have a lot of clothes so I can let that basket just overflow because I am not in need for clean clothes. I found a site for black brides. Yippee! I love The Knot and all, but I needed a more "ethnic"(as they would say on The Knot) approach to wedding planning.
Next weekend will be my baby's first overnight trip with her dad. Why did I agree? God told me to. Usually, I make up some kind of excuse, but I am just tired. I put all of my fears in God's hands. God won't let anything bad happen to her. Before she goes I am going to pray over her and have her step daddy to be anoint her. I ain't playing. Then I will need someone to pray over me all night because I will be missing my baby. I told Rev Saturday I will just sit in the house and cry all day. Sunday I'm trying to go to church all day until she comes home. Revival anyone? Just keep me in your prayers. Be Blessed!