Thank the Lord it's Friday and Go Big Girl.....

I woke up late as hell this morning. I literally threw the first thing I saw in my drawer on, washed my face, brushed my teeth and slapped on my wig. Simultaneously. I came into my daughter's room wielding a hot washcloth so I could wash her face and get her dressed. Simultaneously. Thank God I redid her braids last night because there wouldn't have been anytime to spray some Soul-Glo on the old ones. The upside to all this is I am not as tired as I have been this week. How could I have overslept? I swear alarm clocks malfunction at some point. Shoot, I have had that clock since 1996. Time for a new one you think? Hell, it comes with a cassette player.
I swear my self esteem is getting beat up from the fine folks at Rev's church. People think that being married to a Minister is glamorous but, let me just say this: You become like property to that church. They feel they can say what they want when they want to you. Yesterday, I was at Rev's job and his Pastor came up there( I won't even get into that). The first thing out his mouth was, "It looks like you're getting fat and Rev is getting skinny." WTF????? What in his mind told him it was OK to say that? What if I would have cussed his ass out? In my old day I would have, but I think I was in such shock and awe that I couldn't say anything. Then a couple of weeks Rev and I see one of the Deaconess from his church, and this broad doesn't say hi or nothing, just...."You look nervous." Hoe sit down. Keep that shit to yourself. For her information I was recovering from the flu and I am sorry I didn't look the way she thought I should. I think it is safe to say I will not be going to Rev's church anymore. If I wanted to deal with rude ass people I will stay at my church. At least I know when they say their crazy shit it's coming from a place of love. Be Blessed!