Park Mamas, Tea Trucks, and Nebraska

Last week was full with so much stuff I don't know where to start. I took my daughter to the pediatric dentist for her consult. They confirmed she had two cavities. Making me feel like a straight up "Park Mama". She goes back on March 29 for her actual fillings. I am nervous for her. Hell, I hate fillings.
This weekend Rev and I went to a pre-Valentines Day fun night at New Oak Grove. I had a blast. It was nice to see all the "older" couples still had that fire. Younger couples don't really have that nowadays. We just cheat on each other and treat each other mean. I know things had to be harder for those couples than it is for us. We have the benefit of education, better employment etc. but how is it they had more stress, but stuck together harder? Questions, Questions......
We have now booked the church and the fellowship hall for the wedding. Fellowship hall? Yup. I took inventory and with the wise advice from my pastor and a fellow ursher(that's how we say it in the EC) board member I realized I was only having it at the Khedive to accommodate any drinking that people wanted. Get drunk before you come....out in the car.....after the reception. Having it at the fellowship hall is saving us 800 dollars. That is no small piece of change to laugh at. If people want to drink they will make provisions. When I used to partake in herbal remedies(7 months clean!!!!!!!!! God is Good!), I didn't care if I couldn't smoke where I was going, I would do it before, or after I got there. Its called adaptation(straight busted out a "B" on my Psych mid term). Seeing that this important part of the planning has been secured, I will now get started on the details. This is where my coordinator, Donte comes in. I am not really a decorative person, so I need an out pour of ideas and suggestions. I am going to need everyone that suggest something to understand this is like suggesting the bake sale for your ministry. If it doesn't fit into what we are trying to do, thank you for your suggestion, but that is not the direction we are going in. I don't want any out pours of "You don't respect my opinion...etc" I am saying this because there is always one(ie my Mama).
The real crisis of this week was on Friday night. Rev bought me 3 new wig heads because he new my new "babies" were coming home on Friday and they need a place to live(don't I sound crazy...lol). I drove home all excited and just as I turn the corner to my home I get a call from a nice lady in Nebraska stating she has my wigs...WTF?????? They put her label on the package and my order in the box. Sheer foolishness. I wept like the Aunt in Crooklyn when that dog came flying out the couch. I was totally gonna rock those wigs Sunday and on Valentines day.....ruint..ruint...I tell you. It was OK though. I still have my "Kelly"(as in Kelly from Destiny Child...Beyonce who?) wig. I had to wash it. Using straight up cold water and fabric softener. I used too much though. My room smelled like a vat of Downy on Sunday. I called the wig place and they have agreed to re-ship it, praise Jesus. It gets hard sometimes, but I need my wigs!