You Betta Learn It.....

This past week I have learned a lot. Let's share....fun times....

• I need to keep people out my business

Rev and I have been having our fair share of drama this week regarding people being all up in our pending nuptials. On some Days of our Lives shizz, my mama and my Pastor are conspiring with each other to get me to not marry Rev. My mom always imagined I would marry someone with a pile of money, but the older I get I realize that is not the most important thing(see any post I have written regarding Ron Mexico). From now, on, Rev and I are a united front. Solid as a rock baby!

• Stop the cycle of getting paid, going out to eat fifty 'leven times, and spending 200 dollars at Wally World or Tar-Jay

I have a habit y'all. I love going out to eat. Why? I am too lazy to cook. I am tired when I get home, I have a three year old. Yeah, get there. I love Wally World and Tar-Jay. If I am feeling down or I am lacking something, like every last product that neutragena has ever made, I go to there. It is just something about those places that gets my spending juices flowing. I did a budget today and Rev and I combined have a lot of money left over when we pay all of our bills. I gotta let my fetish go. I guess I will take up another habit.....like smoking...I keed, I keed....

• Exercise + Eating More does NOT equal weight loss

I know that combination sounds crazy.....I was just under the impression that I would just eat what I like and exercise more. Negative. Not a plan. First of July, I am getting a healthier lifestyle poppin'. It's not about being skinny it's about being in shape. I mean that.

• I can sing a lil sumthin sumthin(at least the piano player at church thinks so)

Anyone who knows me, knows I have two big fears. I am afraid of public speaking and I am petrified of singing solo. Well, our musician seems to think my voice has a nice "texture"(his words not mine). He even gave me a song to sing. There is life after Rev and his choir dictatorship ( I still love you babe!)

Well, that is all for now, I am sorry this is so short. So much has been happening, and I just have not been able to verbalize it all. I did want to let everybody know that I have picked out a cake(it's jammin on the ones!) and my dress came Saturday(vision of loveliness). Thanks for reading! Be Blessed!